Join Over 90,000 People & Get FREE Weekly Tips in Your Inbox!

SUBSCRIBE
A man sits at a wooden table in a cozy room, looking tired while working on a laptop. He rests his head on his hand. The table holds a coffee cup, notebook, and phone. Books and plants are visible in the background.

Marketing

Why Nobody’s Sharing Your Content (And the One Thing That Will Change That)

You spent hours on it.

You chose the topic carefully. You wrote and rewrote the opening. You found the right image. You hit publish -- and then… nothing.

A handful of likes. Maybe one comment from your mom. Zero shares.

And the maddening part? You know the content was good. You know it could genuinely help people. So why isn’t anyone passing it along?

Here’s the thing -- and I say this with total compassion because I’ve been there -- the problem almost certainly isn’t your writing ability, your production quality or even your consistency. The problem is specificity.

Or rather, the lack of it.

The Real Reason Great Content Goes Unnoticed

There’s a common assumption in the content world that goes something like this: the more people a piece of content could apply to, the more it will spread.

So we write broad. We write general. We write for ‘everyone.’

And that’s exactly where it falls apart.

When your content speaks to everyone in general, it speaks to no one in particular. And content that doesn’t make someone feel specifically seen -- like you wrote it just for them -- is content they have no urgent reason to share.

Think about the last thing you forwarded to a friend. It almost certainly wasn’t a generic post about ‘the importance of mindset’ or ‘5 tips for better productivity.’ It was probably something that made you think: oh my gosh, this is exactly what she’s going through right now.

That moment of recognition -- that ‘this is FOR me’ feeling -- is what drives sharing. And you can engineer it.

The Specificity Paradox

I know what you might be thinking: ‘But Marisa, if I get more specific, won’t I reach fewer people?’

Yes. And that’s the whole point.

Fewer people seeing content that feels made for them will always outperform more people seeing content that feels made for no one. A smaller group of deeply resonant readers who share, comment and come back -- that’s how organic reach actually grows.

I’ve seen this pattern play out over and over. The posts that went truly wide -- the ones people forwarded and screenshot and tagged their friends in -- were always the ones that were painfully specific. Specific problem. Specific person. Specific moment in time.

The irony is that the narrower you go, the broader your eventual reach becomes. Because people share things that make them feel understood. And when someone shares your content, they’re doing it because they know someone else who will feel that same recognition.

How to Make Your Content Share-Worthy

So what does this actually look like in practice? Here are three shifts that make an immediate difference:

  1. Name your reader precisely.

Instead of writing for ‘business owners’ or ‘people who want to grow,’ write for the person who is 45 minutes into yet another planning session with nothing to show for it. Write for the new coach who just launched her first offer to crickets. Write for the person who has all the knowledge but none of the traction.

You’re not excluding people -- you’re giving everyone else a window to look through and see themselves.

  1. Anchor your content to a specific moment.

Generic content lives in the abstract. Shareable content lives in a moment. ‘How to build a business’ is abstract. ‘What to do the week after your launch flops’ is a moment. Moments create immediate relevance. Relevance creates sharing.

  1. Make the takeaway unusually specific.

Vague advice gets politely consumed and quietly forgotten. Specific advice gets screenshotted. Instead of ‘be consistent with your content,’ try ‘post three times a week for eight weeks before you judge whether it’s working.’ Specificity makes advice feel actionable -- and actionable advice gets passed along.

The One Thing That Changes Everything

If I had to distill all of this into one question to ask before you publish anything, it’s this:

‘Who, specifically, is this for -- and what exact situation are they in right now?’

Not ‘who is my target market.’ Not ‘who follows me.’ Who is the one person sitting somewhere right now who needs this content today? Name them. Picture them. Write to them.

When you can answer that question clearly, everything else falls into place -- the hook, the angle, the tone, the call to action. And the person reading it will feel it. They’ll feel like you were somehow in the room with them, watching their frustration, and decided to write exactly what they needed.

That’s not magic. That’s specificity.

And it’s the reason they’ll hit share.

I’d love to hear from you -- what’s a piece of content you’ve created that surprised you by how well (or how poorly) it spread? Drop a note in the comments below. And if this post hit home for someone you know, go ahead and send it their way. 😊

Speaking of getting specific…

The fastest way to make everything in your business easier -- your content, your offers, your sales conversations -- is getting crystal clear on exactly who you serve and what makes you the obvious choice for them.

That’s exactly what my $9 Profitable Micro-Niches Mini-Course will help you do.

You know the riches are in the niches… But most people’s niches are too broad -- they’re missing that critical Market Fit.

And that’s exactly what your Micro-Niche is all about… Defining exactly what you do AND exactly who you serve in such a specific, compelling way leaves your Perfect Customers no choice but to lean in and say… how can I get what you’ve got?!

I’ll show you how to find yours in my $9 Mini-Course!

Love it? Hate it? Let me know...

Leave a Comment

POPULAR

A man sits at a desk in a dimly lit office, thoughtfully looking at a laptop displaying graphs and statistics, including subscriber numbers and growth rates. The workspace features warm lighting and blurred decor in the background.

Why Your Email List Isn’t Working -- And How to Fix It

A young woman with brown hair in a cozy sweater sits on a sofa, smiling as she looks at her smartphone. Warm, soft lighting and blurred decorative lights create a relaxed, inviting atmosphere.

The Testimonial You’re Overlooking (And Why It’s Your Most Powerful Marketing Asset)

A smiling man with a beard, wearing a blue shirt, is sitting at a desk working on a laptop in a modern home office. A notebook, pen, and shelves with books and decor are visible in the background.

The Follower Count Myth: Why a Small Audience Can Outsell a Big One

Four people sit in a circle having a lively, friendly conversation. One woman holds a notebook and smiles, while the others, two men and another man with glasses, laugh and engage with her in a bright, casual setting.

Stop Building Audiences -- Start Building Believers

Join Our Newsletter

A stylized drawing of a woman seated and reading a book in a cozy, circular space filled with cushions. The scene is framed by bookcases, plants, and a decorative, intricate border, creating a tranquil and inviting atmosphere.

Sign up to get updates and all the goodness to your inbox!

SUBSCRIBE

Interested in Joining the Live Your Message Dream Team?

SEE OUR OPEN POSITIONS
Privacy Overview
Live Your Message

We use information collected through cookies and similar technologies to improve your experience on our site and analyze how you use it. Because we respect your right to privacy, you can choose not to allow some types of cookies. However, blocking some types of cookies may impact your experience of the site. In some cases, data obtained from cookies is shared with third parties for analytics reasons. You can exercise your right to opt-out of that sharing at any time by disabling cookies.

Necessary Cookies

These cookies and scripts are necessary for the website to function and cannot be switched off. They are usually only set in response to actions made by you which amount to a request for services, such as setting your privacy preferences, logging in or filling in forms. You can set your browser to block or alert you about these cookies, but some parts of the site will not then work. These cookies do not store any personally identifiable information.

Analytics Cookies

These cookies and scripts allow us to count visits and traffic sources, so we can measure and improve the performance of our site. They help us know which pages are the most and least popular and see how visitors move around the site. All information these cookies collect is aggregated and therefore anonymous. If you do not allow these cookies and scripts, we will not know when you have visited our site.

Targeting Cookies

Targeting Tracking Technologies may be used on our Website by our advertising partners (or set directly by our advertising partners) to collect data about your online activity. They record your visits to our Website, the pages you have visited, and the links you have followed. They are used by our advertising partners to build a profile of your interests and show you relevant advertisements on our Website as well as other sites. For example, they’re used to detect when you click on an ad and show you ads based on your social media interests and browsing history.